First, the post is dedicated to all the moms, mother figures, and role models. Statements from Mind Escape Vibe followers, my son, family, and friends with kind words and memories for their mothers. I hope you enjoy! Happy Mother’s Day! Being a mother is a rewarding journey.
“My mom is my support system. She has helped shape and mold me into the person I am today. She has supported me, uplifted me, and loved me unconditionally. I am very grateful to call my mom- MOM. Thank you, and I love you. Happy Mother’s Day.” – Keone
Although there are plenty of resources to help during the journey as a mother, there is no magic wand. For instance, my daughter peed on me, pooped on me, and screamed to the top of lungs putting on a onesie. She would cry so loudly that most days, I opted to ‘not poke the bear’ until that one day, it was chilly, and I knew the child needed the onesie, so I smiled and cried right with her until I got it on. I must admit the tears provided relief, but most importantly, I completed the task at hand. As time passed, I learned that music soothed her while bathing and dressing, so I leaned on what worked.
The boy mom was a bit different. Certainly, I practiced the same techniques with my daughter. But I wasn’t prepared for was the water hose- both my sons hit me in my left eye! (lol)- despite their age difference, I guess their aim was relative. Being a mother has its challenges. I was a single mom, scraping to get by for a long time. I felt a sense of happiness when I knew my children had a roof over their heads, clothes on their backs, and food on the table.
Eventually, my infants became toddlers, then adolescents, then teens. They didn’t want me too close, but not too far away as teens. We had fun, but I also had teens wishing to find their way. We made it through by the grace of God. Mother’s Day evolved from macaroni necklaces to songs and finally dinners-not cooked by me!
“Thanks for being there even when I tell you not to be”- Kan.fit
My mom taught me valuable lessons that have anchored me over the years. I can’t thank her enough or tell her enough, and I continue to relish her wisdom. For some, it is these memories that they hold so close.
“It has been 16 years since I have laid eyes on my mother, my best friend, and my rock. My mother helped shape me for 29 years until her health failed her, and these last 16 years, I still pull from the lessons she gave me. I thank God every day for the mother she was and the lessons she taught me.
My mother may be gone, but her sister, my Aunt Lovie, has been the mother figure I needed once she was gone. Being raised as an only child, I feel like I am always looking for love because I always had my mother’s love: the hugs, the kisses, the home-cooked meals, and the life lessons. What I wouldn’t do to have her back with me, but that is selfish. I would never want her to have pain again like before she left.
My Aunt Lovie never had any biological kids, but I was hers from my earliest memories. Recently, with her health issues these past months, I will hop on a plane and be in Missouri in a heartbeat to be with her. I pray for ones that still have their mothers or their mother figures in their life, to hold them close.” Happy Mother’s Day- mrs_wilson
One of the most exhilarating moments for me as a mom is rooting for my children’s success. I was able to see my daughter become a mother and take each day one step at a time in her sobriety. My middle son excels in entrepreneurship and now marriage, and my youngest son discovers his place in this world without showing up other than his fabulous self. These are priceless gifts, and I look forward to the privilege of seeing more. Experiencing motherhood with my adult children is priceless!
“I would tell her thank you for being there for me when no one else was and for being my biggest cheerleader”- stevietroupe
In fact, the love I have for my mother is like the memory of my grandmother’s. I cherished our conversations. My mom prepared me for many things. Still, she loved me when I was hard to love. Even today, she nurtures me. – the love was in the preparation.
For hours, we talk via FaceTime. The lessons I learn are invaluable. She is one of the many reasons I keep searching for the best parts of myself. I love her beyond words, and I’m blessed to have her. My motherhood mentor.
“She did well…and every day, I am inspired by her to be a better me. I love her so!” adoseof_deandra